Friday, June 28, 2013

Week # 19-First and hopefully last ER trip

Week # 19-6/28/13
Baby is size of: Mango!

Weight-158.8

Change since last week: same
Weight gain overall: 11.6 lbs

Symptoms:   Sciatica pain down my left side is daily now-I can hardly stand up without feeling it so I feel like I stand up like I'm 80 years old. No urinary hesitancy-I can almost sleep through the night again, but get up at least once. Weird, very vivid dreams. Some cramping, round ligament pain and brown spotting is back-yay. Oh and I found my first set of stretch marks!! They are pretty light just on both sides above my stomach. See below for my new obsession of oiling and lotioning 3x a day. I know it's mostly genetics but I will do what I can do minimize or prevent them. 

Cravings? Same! I love my same breakfast every morning-see below. I still love fruit every day. I need more veggies!


Exercise Sadly, I'm back on pelvic rest, so I'm not exercising at all till Doc gives okay again. It's been kind of a rough week!

I said I would NEVER go to the ER. I never understood why pregnant women rushed there for simple bleeding or thinking they were having miscarriages. What can the ER really do?

So, I woke up Friday morning and was fine, but realized that I had some brown spotting. I thought this was all over with weeks ago! I went about the day but it didn't get any better and actually got slightly heavier at night with some pelvic pain, but it was still brown blood which was good. I decided to call the on call nurse Saturday morning just to get some advice. I was praying she didn't say go to the ER. She called the on call doctor (which ironically happened to be my old OB that I don't see anymore). She called back stating that since they were concerned about my cervix opening and no offices were open on Saturdays, they wanted me to go to the ER. I was so upset. The first thing I thought about was money. I hate ERs. I have terrible history's with them. When I was sick a few years ago, I went there three different times with three decent hospital bills and really just a bill of "clean" health since they couldn't diagnose me right. Ugh.

Dan convinced me it's better to be safe than sorry. So off we went. I picture ERs to be like the show I used to watch, ER. We walked in around 10:30 am and it was as quiet as could be. No doctors rushing bloody people off of ambulances or performing CPR as they wheeled the person in. It was actually quite peaceful. 

They did a urine sample, blood test, pelvic exam and an ultrasound. Let me tell you, this NP was not gentle with the damn speculum! It was nice to see baby on the ultrasound. It looks so much bigger! They couldn't tell boy or girl since umbilical cord was in the way. But it was moving like crazy!

So results were: placenta previa. Basically the placenta is too low and is covering or partially covering the cervix. This causes the bleeding. I still kinda feel like a ticking time bomb. If heavy bleeding starts, it's hard to control and the hospital has to monitor it . In 90% of cases when it starts early in pregnancy, it usually heals itself since the uterus continues to grow and things continue to shift. However, if it stays, they may induce baby a month early and only do Cesarean since there is too much of a heavy bleeding risk with vaginal delivery. I'm thinking positive. Had this been like 30 weeks, it would be more worrisome. 

So, it wasn't a bad experience. The staff was very nice. I just wish I could have a "normal" pregnancy and not be on edge every time I go to the bathroom. As Dan would say, "Just sit down somewhere and be pregnant!" I have a hard time doing nothing and I guess I should relax more. There's nothing that could have prevented this, but still, it's frustrating!

Baby thoughts-Okay, not baby thoughts, "Mommy thoughts". I have an intense fear of stretch marks. Now, I have some from when my boobs and hips grew when I was a teenager, I can deal with that. The thought of having tons on my stomach freaks me out! I know it's genetic and since Mom had them, I likely will. But I refuse to settle for that. I went to the bathroom at work and since their lighting was super bright, I decided to check out my stomach. Sure enough, I found a set on each side of my ribs/upper stomach. Granted, they are very light, but I freaked out. So, below is what I found to have the best reviews. I started last night and lather it on my stomach, hips and boobs. I will continue to post about the results. I am hoping if they can't prevent them, they can at least minimize them!


So! Next week will hopefully be a good news week! We have our anatomy scan. The hospital already confirmed the main body parts were growing correctly. Hopefully we can find out the sex since baby didn't want to cooperate last time! Also looking forward to 4th of July and a two day work week. I can't believe baby will be half baked next week!

 My standard breakfast:  1/2 cup strawberry shortcake coffee with sweet cream creamer, fruit salad, toast with cheese, ketchup, natural turkey sausage and a cage-free organic fried egg. I believe I've been eating this for three weeks now!
                               Feel better flowers Dan bought after we got back from the ER. 

Friday, June 21, 2013

Week #18-Father's Day!

Week # 18-6/21/13
Baby is size of: Sweet Potato!

Weight-158.8- Ugh. I'm trying to stick to a pound a week. I admit. I eat great in the morning and while I'm at work, then at night, I indulge a little. I'm just slightly above where I should be in weight gain. 
Change since last week: +1.6
Weight gain overall: 10.8lbs

Symptoms:  Not much change since last week. Sciatica pain down my left side on and off, peeing twice a night religiously. 

CravingsAs much as I hated eggs, I now crave them. I've had one every day this week. I also love my fruit and turkey burgers. Less carbs. 

Exercise I walked with Linsday on the Puetz trail for about 2 hours one night and also weeded the garden for 2 hours one night and 2.5 hours another night.


                 15Weeks 3 Days         

                         18 weeks

I think I have popped! It took about 17/18 weeks but my shorts and pants no longer fit and some of my tops are tight. It is not the easiest thing to see the scale continuing to go up, but I'm still convinced I gained at least 2 pounds in each boob a lone! I can't believe I'm almost halfway there. It's kinda scary how much bigger I'm going to get! The baby is only about 7 ounces at this point!!

This past weekend we hosted Father's Day. It was nice seeing my Grandparents and getting together with family. Dan was awesome on the grill as usual. He cooked up some burgers, chicken and ribs. It was a nice time. I also whipped up two of my apple pies. I have to admit-I have apple pie down :). My parents gave Dan a nice card. Dan has been great thus far and is going to be a wonderful Dad. 

Baby Thoughts: I don't have much to say this week lol. I am really looking forward to the next doctor's appointment on July 1. I want to see that our baby is growing healthy and am anxious for confirmation of a boy or girl. 

On to Week 19!

Friday, June 14, 2013

Week #17-Feeling good!

Week # 17-6/14/13
Baby is size of: Onion!

Weight-157.2- So according to my weekly update, I will start gaining weight rapidly and steadily continue to gain one pound a week. It's not fair, I feel like I should be bigger to be gaining a pound a week!!
Change since last week: +1lb
Weight gain overall: 9.2lbs

Symptoms:  Sciatica pain down my left side on and off, peeing twice a night religiously, morning headaches. Let me say-I don't want second trimester to ever end! Going from nausea, exhaustion and crazy insane sore boobs to almost feeling normal is awesome!

Cravings? As much as I hated eggs, I now crave them. I've had one every day this week. I also love my fruit and turkey burgers. Less carbs. 

Exercise 2x this week-again. I've now worked out twice a week for a month. It's good, but I want to get up to 3x a week and hopefully 4. I walked to/from the library twice this week and also did Jillian 30DS level 1 as well. 

We had a bonfire last Friday with Dan, Beck, Steve, Ronnie, Vanessa, Amanda, Chris, Virginia and Chris. Always a good time! I have to say, I really miss drinking alcohol, but I can wait!


          Beck and Steve bought this for us. LOL at the condoms since this was an "oops!"

Baby Thoughts-Natural Birth-We went to two graduations last week and they were nice. It's crazy to think that it has been 13 years since I graduated. Time flies. I got in many conversations with family members talking about babies and birth. I mentioned how I really want to do a med-free birth. My cousins thought I was crazy. Most of my Aunt's had natural births and encouraged it. Both my cousins had medicated births. Now, lets say I am not against it since I know things can happen, but I've done research on pitocin and epidurals causing behavioral issues in children. I just don't want to use medications if I don't have to. I feel like women have been doing this for many, many years without medications. I pray my body works how I want it to in birth, but again, I'm not opposed to intervention if absolutely necessary.

So, I walked to the library and picked up the book above. I would recommend it. It's hilarious. It gives a comical view on pregnancy. I think I found it to be funny since I experienced a lot of things she talked about in the book. It's probably good to pick up the third or fourth month in pregnancy; It makes more sense. I read it in three days, it was good! It's also a good quick read if you're not a big reader like me.


I love my alcohol. I was wondering prior to being pregnant what I was going to do when I got pregnant since I loved alcohol, mainly wine, so much! It's not as bad as I thought. So, this is my "substitute" for wine. It's by called "Fre" by Sutter Home. It's not too bad but it really tastes nothing like alcohol but tastes great when mixed with sprite.  It tastes like a wine cooler! The red blend is my favorite to mix so far.

We're moving Beck and Steve into their place today! I haven't seen their house so I'm excited. We're also having Grandma and Grandpa over for Father's Day Sunday with Mom, Dad, Beck, Steve and Amanda.. Boo for working the weekend. On to week 18!

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Week #16-16 week appointment

Week # 16-6/7/13
Baby is size of: Avocado!

Weight-156.2-I feel as if I'm gaining 1 pound a week steadily, which isn't easy to see, but Oh well! I really haven't been eating different and I'm definitely not as lazy as first trimester.  I feel like I've gained 3 pounds in my boobs alone! They say starting 2nd tri, you gain about  one pound a week till birth. 
Change since last week: +1.2lbs

Symptoms: Welcome Sciatica pain! Down my left side, ugh-no fun, peeing twice a night religiously, boobs are actually less sore. I am again liking second trimester! Feeling very good overall.

Cravingsnothing unusual. I actually ate eggs (hard boiled)! I feel good about eating those since they are so healthy for you

Exercise 2x this week. I walk/jogged/push ups at the community center when Dan was playing basketball. Man did it feel so good to run! I also did Jillian Micheal's 30 Day shred. I'm less sore now, so as the soreness goes a way, exercise will increase.

It was a good week. I was on vacation for a few days last week and I went back to work Tuesday really rejuvenated. We spent some time doing yard work, grilling, making dinner, shopping and just relaxing. I love time off with nothing planned! I also went to Water Buffalo to celebrate Jenny's 31st birthday which was really nice. I love that restaurant!

Baby Shopping! I found a bargain! See picture below. I went to Bye Bye baby last Saturday just to snoop around. They have gently used baby outfits for 1.75! I will buy some once we know for sure what we are having. Then I turn around and there are crib sets. I found an 8-piece Winnie the Pooh set: 2 fitted sheets, bed ruffle, bumper (prob won't use), pillow, quilt, Valance-all for 40.00!!! I couldn't pass it up so I had to buy it. It's such a nice neutral pattern too. I also went to Kohl's and bought my first baby outfit (see below). I had a 10.00 Kohl's card they sent, so that cost me nothing! I kept the receipt of course just in case it's not a boy. I am determined to get bargains on everything we buy :)

Thurs, 6/6/13-16 week appointment. It was a quick one. I saw a male doctor this time, Dr. Hayes. I really like him! Very personable, funny and knowledgeable. He took blood pressure, weight and found baby's heartbeat on the Doppler right a way. By feeling my stomach, he could tell I was 16/17 weeks. I have a feeling this baby is going to be a bigger baby considering how big Dan and I were at birth. Blood pressure was 128/60-still in normal range. My platelet count went up from the first time they tested it from 130 to 132. 140 is considered normal so they will continue to test every few months. Next appointment is the big one! Anatomy scan. We'll be able to see how baby is developing and pretty accurately what the sex is for sure!

Exciting weekend. We're having game night with Beck, Steve, Vanessa and Ronnie and a few others. We're also going to try to have a fire if the pit isn't too wet.. Saturday we are going to my cousin Hannah's graduation party and later going to Dan's cousin's Meme's High School graduation ceremony. Sunday, nothing! Love our lazy Sunday's!
                                          Great deal on baby bedding set
First baby outfit bought at Kohl's

Sunday, June 2, 2013

Week #15-Happy 4th Anniversary!

Week # 15-5/31/13
Baby is size of: Naval Orange!

Weight-155.0
Change since last week: +1
Measurement changes:
                    5/1/13         5/31/13
Waist             31                 32
Stomach        40                40.6
Hips             40                 40.5
Not too bad.  I've started this pregnancy at 148. I've gained 7 pounds.

Symptoms: I can honestly say, I have felt the best this week than I have all pregnancy. I almost feel normal! Some symptoms continue: sore boobs, round ligament pain, minor cramping/stretching. New symptom: headaches :(.  I continue to have urinary hesitancy, but only if I don't go all night. It's terrible. I woke up from actually sleeping a whole night and could not pee for 15 minutes! I had to go so bad but couldn't. I eventually went, but at times I want to set my alarm so I get up in the middle of the night.

Cravings? Caesar salads and cold Velvetta Shells and Cheese-must be cold! Nothing new.

Exercise: I took two long walks and did the Leslie Sansone walking tape this week. It felt good. I am adopting "sweat 5 days a week"-stolen from Beck. I am slowly getting better as my energy increases.

I feel I need to give some thanks to Dan. It was our four year anniversary this week. I cannot believe it's been four years. It's weird when you think of who you will marry when you are young. You just picture this fairy tale of being swept off your feet, getting married and having a beautiful family and that's it, that's what is supposed to happen. It's been a rough road; but I feel so incredibly blessed.  Without sounding too corny, he is my fairy tale. He's so supportive, loving, funny, caring and always has us in mind. I'm really not one to speak about this since I've never been one to be real out there about my feelings. We've known each other almost 15 years and I just thank God that one of us never walked a way from each other because I have no idea where I'd be. He's going to be such a wonderful father and I feel very blessed.

This week was a good week! Especially because I feel like I'm in that "second trimester energy burst". Mom and Dad had a Memorial Day party. It was nice. I got to spend time with family which is always good and there's always good food!! I also took a few days off of work as I had some holiday time to burn. We planned nothing! I love having nothing planned. It's nice to get yard work done and just sleep in! We relaxed mostly on our anniversary. We went to Fred Astire and had a dance lesson. It was fun, but since it was a groupon, they tried talking us into paying for lessons...yeah at 400.00 for five 40 min lessons, no thank you. I made Manicotti and Apple pie for dinner/dessert and we played a game of Sequence on the patio. Mom and Dad came and dropped off some hanging planters and a card which was very nice. It was a good week.

Baby Thoughts: I'm starting to get excited about everything. I now have in my mind it's a boy since that's what the ultrasound tech told us at our 12 week appointment, however, I'm still not rushing out to buy anything just yet. I really am now keeping my eye open for rummage sales.
                                                       Gift From Aunt Donna
10W 2 D
                                                
                                                                            15W 2D
I honestly don't see much difference in five weeks! Maybe I'm "popping" a little more?